101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do

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OK, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about sensual foot massages? The feet have so many nerve endings, and some people actually orgasm from foot rubs alone, which means pedicures are about to become a lot more fun. 7. Film yourself having sex. Kinks are basically anything that arouses you, and there are tonnns of different ones out there. Maybe you like the feeling of latex against your skin? Or getting spanked? Or wearing heels in bed? Try some different kinky moves and ideas out. 2. Go to a nude beach. Keen to give kink a try? The key to exploring your kinky side starts with open, honest communication and fun! So sit down and talk about what turns you on with your other half before you get started. Discussing your sexual desires with a trusted partner can also serve as foreplay and be seriously steamy. So talk about it, plan what you hope to explore together and enjoy the ride! As long as you're all consenting adults, anything goes and the world is your rubber lobster: 1. Sensory deprivation Maybe you’re a vibrator connoisseur or perhaps a curious novice. Maybe you’re shopping for a Christmas gift, anniversary gift, Valentine’s Day gift, or a romantic gift just to show that special someone you’re thinking of them. Whatever the reason and whatever your giftee’s tastes, we’ve got the best sexy gifts primed to light up anyone’s holiday (including your own), from top-rated sex toys, lacy lingerie, and kinky card games to BDSM starter kits, bedroom-ready sex pillows, and sex blankets.

We spoke to Bodyworker and Sex & Intimacy Coach Libby Sheppard, gynaecologist and co-founder of Hanx Sarah Welsh, and sex and dating expert at The Stag Company Clarissa Bloom, about the pros and cons of exploring kinky sex, plus we share 26 expert tips for beginners on how to enjoy a positive, safe and sexy kink experience: What is kinky sex? We're not talking about the old cliché blow job tip of popping an ice cube in your mouth before going down on your partner. (Though if that does it for you, by all means go for it!) Ice cubes are the cheapest sex toy around, because it allows you to experiment with hot and cold sensations that can make for an exciting sensory session. Try trailing the ice cube over your partner's body when things get steamy for a chillingly good sensation. 4. Send a racy text. Choose a safe word: it's important to establish a safe word so you can swiftly end any scenario you're not comfortable with if things get too much – and don’t be afraid to use it. As with all sex, kink should be completely consensual so if one or both of you isn’t enjoying the experience, use that safe word and stop immediately. Dominance and submission refer to a consensual erotic power exchange between two (or more) people. Although it may sound scary, due to consent and safety precautions kinkster engage in, a D/S scene can be safer than a vanilla hook-up. "Any time that we are talking about power control, that is the safest kind of sex that partners can have because there's so much communication, trust, and vulnerability built into these kinds of exchanges and sexual experiences," says sex therapist and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Dr. Holly Richmond. 16. Autonepiophilia

23. Make a home movie.

Sensation play can refer to a huge range of activities based on the receiving or withholding of different stimuli. For instance, one partner may blindfold the other to deprive them of their sense of sight, a form of sensory deprivation, or they may drag an ice cube along their skin, a form of sensation play known as temperature play. 8. Orgasm Control Practise bondage safety: never leave a restrained person unattended, even for a moment. If the Dominant needs to leave the room for any reason whatsoever, always release the submissive to avoid catastrophe.

Public displays of affection range from hand-holding and innocent kissing to full-on make-out sessions to the flouting of public decency laws. For some couples, a kiss in public is cause for excitement, but others might want to get a little more adventurous. We're not going to condone any law-breaking or illegal public sexual behavior, but you can still work within the bounds of the law and have some fun. Sounds counterintuitive, I know, but orgasm denial can actually be the hottest thing you introduce to your sex life. If you mastered the art of teasing your partner for a week without giving in, try letting yourselves be brought right to the brink of orgasm but not orgasming—for a week. 34. Try a tingling arousal gel on your clit.Virtual sex parties are a great way to dip your toes into the idea of swinging and/or getting it on in public, and the best part is you don't even have to leave your couch or put on pants to attend.

Everyone has different limits and boundaries, and it’s important to respect that. Follow our 6 tips to make sure kinky sex is a safe, positive experience for everyone involved: Yes, shower sex sometimes gets a bad rap because you're in a tight space and it's hard to find the perfect angle. But you actually *can* have good shower sex with a bit of practice. Just make sure you invest in a non-slip mat first so you don't fall, puh-leeze! 80. Have sex in the bathtub. There’s no need to feel awk, promise! Just talk about what you're doing to yourself, ask what they're doing to themselves, and say what you'd like to do if you were together. 85. Have sex somewhere other than a bed. In our society, it is acceptable, or even expected, of men to have multiple sexual partners and be interested in all kinds of different sex acts. But unfortunately, many women are still conditioned to believe sex is dirty, that multiple sexual partners is bad, and desiring something other than vanilla sex is wrong. We can really question this whole idea of 'abnormal' sex," says Meg-John Barker, author of Enjoy Sex and host of the Meg-John and Justin podcast. "Actually the number of people who feel some desire for being tied up, or spanked, for example, is higher than the number of people who don't."You don't even have to go anywhere! There are tons of sex classes online now, which means you can improve your skills without fighting traffic or leaving your house. Besides, what’s the worst that can happen? You both get better at sex? 74. Take a fetish quiz together. Lianne suggests starting with an easy role playing scenario, like pretending you don't know each other and chatting each other up in a bar. Combine pain and pleasure