Chastity Belt Training 1: 7 days kept chaste with tasks from Lady Sas

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A true chastity experience usually involves a decision-maker and a chaste person. The decision-maker (or the keyholder) holds the key to the other person’s pleasure, gratification, and release. They can do so metaphorically or literally if the chaste person is in a chastity device. He had to wear the device anytime that I was going on a date regardless of what his key holder allowed. I made it explicit that I would not promise that I would keep his secret from my dates. However, at first I did keep the device secret. That would change later.

each day we would change his device and he cleaned the spare. he was in cuffs for the exchange so he would not cheat Once you are in an ideal state and ready to attach the device, treat lubricant as your new best friend! Ideally use a water based lube that won’t interfere with the material of your device (silicone lube should not be used with silicone devices) and apply liberally to your genitals (shaft and testicles), you can also apply a small amount to the inside of the device but be aware you may then need to wear gloves to allow some friction to keep hold of the device during the next steps! Steer clear of any “tingle” or “heat” type novelty lubes and consider what will be best for your long-term comfort. 4. The base ring As a child I fervently wished I would get Polio and have to be put in an Iron Lung and then have to use leg braces. At the age of 9 I contracted Spinal Meningitis. At first they didn't know if I had Polio or Meningitis. I heard the doctors discussing it with my parents. I just knew that I had Polio and every time I heard someone coming down the hall I prayed they were bringing my Iron Lung. No one knew the real reason for the tears I shed when they announced I had Meningitis.Irregular/Unscheduled – Some couples may want to do this infrequently to add a boost to your relationship. While I am confident that you will eventually end up with one of the above release schedules, this is a great place to start. We spent 30 years chasing the "good life" and enjoyed the benefits that came with it but something was missing for us. We played around with bondage quite a bit and I even dressed in a corset quite often for our love making and it seemed to be alright with her but it wasn't near the turn-on for her as for me. As ever, the language used changes from person to person, but as you can probably guess, this is about getting someone closer and closer, before denying and cutting off their orgasm. Whatever task you get, always remember: the tasks are here to keep you entertained. Only do tasks you are comfortable with, and always have an escape plan. You can decline a task at any time. Household rules like mine are important for a female leader as they set the tone and hierarchy. There is no equality and the rules in any society will set those structures and levels.

A great deal of this post resonated with me. Cages do not. My wife is 100% into FLR and chastity, and has mastered it over our almost 20 years of practice and exploration. I am in stable, indefinite chastity at this point. It took a decade to get to that level. She controls everything about my erotic mind, I literally cannot come unless she induces that desire. This is purely psychologically based control, I would just cut off a cage if I had one anyway…she now runs my labido as if she had an on off switch, and a volume knob. On command, on call. And I do the dishes, which now turns me on. (Any service to her is erotic at this point. It is almost surreal.) The whole reason we have changed to an FLR is because the previous paradigm of a dominant male ego trying to lead the family failed catastrophically and my Wife was constantly trying to manage all of the fallout from that. Chastity lifestyle doesn’t always include two (or more people). It can also be a solo adventure. People decide to take the step for various reasons (and not all of them are kinky!). The sound of my Mistress's voice from across the room cut through my musing is, "Quit admiring your new chastity belt and get dressed, we have a lot yet to do today". Later on, it began to feel weird having no hair below the waist but a normal amount above, so… I started to shave my entire body.

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An essay about adult punishment in female led relationships OR every relationship has rules. This is how to enforce them Because I need to talk about how I feel and to understand how she feels we have a time on Sunday where we sit together with a glass of wine and can talk about anything. I can ask how long I will have to abstain or how she is feeling. Like does she feel obligated to do anything and so on.